Lets vent....

You know what I hate the most....

When people forget about Thanksgiving each year and start getting ready for Christmas. Yes, both days are very special to my heart and no, I'm not trying to act like a Mr. Scrooge but lets not forget Thanksgiving.

• The number one rule to myself is NEVER start listening to Christmas music until Thanksgiving.
• NEVER start decorating or lighting up the Christmas tree until Thanksgiving evening.
• Always have fun at holiday parties and Never forget the true reason why we share these two holidays with our loved ones.

There's my rant, get excited....Thanksgiving is only a week away! Gobble Gobble

To the Tinder loving girls out there

Ladies,
I'll gladly be one of the first or if not many to say Tinder is not the site to find your next boyfriend on. Prove me wrong but too many girls in College believe that you can find your dream man on social media these days. I would like to compare this too a girl trying to find her soul mate around campus corner at the local bar after the guys pre gaming of course.
Meet a guy at school or work, don't get Catfished. Be strong ladies. Don't download Tinder.

Tinder moments  that my friends have received on Tinder:

•  "Hey, I dropped something, my jaw"
•  " Hey babe can I get your number.... Hey babe, this is ____ can you remind me who's number this is"
•  " Hey Sarah, I just wanted to say that you're really beautiful" - "Its Lynnsey, and thanks if that was meant to me..."
• Tinder guy - So are you trying to show me around town tonight,  

          Anna -"I'm just visiting a friend so I don't know this state either, "

         
          Tinder guy- You want to come hangout in my hotel room for a little bit?

                   
          Anna- Its 2pm..

             
          Tinder guy- And your point is...

• "One night stand?"
• "So what exactly are you looking for on here"
• " I'm hot, your hot.... what are you doing tonight"

Hope this was entertaining to you as It was for me to read.......

To the future intern,

Internships can be intimidating, as they’re seen as the first big leap into your professional carrier, you might have anxiety, nervousness, stressed, and the list goes on. I can’t speak for everyone else but I know I’m a people pleasure.  Since all my friends and I are in our in our Mid 20’s, we’ve learned a lot from every internship we experienced since junior year.

While you figure out what you like and dislike in a job you’re interested in, here are a few things that each intern needs to know before entering his/her first day.

Be on time- Nothing is more frustrating to a manger more than being late. You’re a grown up now, start using your alarm clock that your mom bought you as a gift for Christmas hinting that you can’t  sleep through class once again.

Dress like the week day, not the weekend- I hope every girl takes away something from this tip, don’t dress like your about to go to a club. Always wear a black blazer and skirt that pass your middle finger if you’re standing hands by your side.

Be nice to the assistant- Be nice to the assistant of the company, since she is the closes to the director/ CEO of the company, depending where you work at. While waiting for you interview, brush up on your resume to show that you serious about the job and KEEP YOUR PHONE IN YOUR BAG.

Being a perfectionist- I struggle with being a perfectionist on every assignment. ITS OKAY to not know the answer to everything your first month or two in the job, ask questions, that’s how you learn and grow. I learned that asking questions show that you care about the job and you want to make your work the best it can.

 Jot down every note- Evan if you have the best memory in the world, you can’t remember everything, take notes. Notes will be your best friend.

Take every task you’re given- I think this one is very important, I LOVE to learn new things on the daily so taking every task your manager gives you and going the extra mile shows how dedicated you were in the internship which your manager can refer you to a different company that’s hiring after your internship is over.

The best thing about being an intern is that your manager doesn’t expect you to know everything your first couple of weeks being in the company. I love having managers ask me my opinion in a meeting; they truly do make a difference on where you might end up after you graduate.

-Your's truly,
 the intern

The new social spot in town

Okay ladies and gents, here is a new hot spot for a fun social atmosphere that Oklahoma has to offer now. Downtown, OKC just opened a daily food truck called Bleu Garden which is located at 301 NW 10th St, Oklahoma City, OK.

Bleu Garden is a 21 year and older bar that features entertainment and up to six different trucks per night can park at the restaurant.

I went the first week it was open, I loved how their were walls but no roof so I can enjoy the nice weather and watch TV while sipping on an adult beverage that night with my friends. It’s a nice yet relaxing hangout to go with your friends. Bleu Garden has a capacity of 600 in the bar at one night. So bring everyone you know and see what I’m talking about. One of my favorite places hands down!

When In Doubt

College can be the most stressful but rewarding times in one students life. Sometimes you have to shake off your stress, catch up on your favorite magazine and just celebrate your birthday like it's your last.

Shake it off  - Its easier said than done but going through a bad break up, test or a bad hair day, you just need to shake it off. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfWlot6h_JM

Laugh out loud because you know all the TSM blogs are true-  either it's a book,  blog or Tv show, you just need something you can relate too so you can get a good laugh in once in a while.

http://totalsororitymove.com

Celebrate your birthday for a whole month - Celebrate your birthday like it's your 21st, you won't be celebrating  too much longer is my thought process. It's not neirly as fun turning a year older after 30. 

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=go+shorty+its+your+birthday

"Good writing creates good blogs"

Last week, I listened to Dr. Hochenauer speak to our class about how blogging changed 
his life and how “Good writing creates a good blogs”.  Dr. Hochenaur, explained to the class that when 
writing a post, you want to make it inspirational and consider the issue and find what other people
 aren’t writing about.

            When writing a blog, worry about writing certain blogs that are already written about 

because you want something original. After hearing him say that in my opinion.  I realize that I needed 

to follow more blogs. Figure out your audience and tell the story accordingly is just one step too engaging

your audience in a blog. I need to get familiarize with other bloggers work and notice If there’s a 

similarity to a post made from a different blogger.

            My blog is something special to me where I am able to write my experiences and what 
I learned from being in my 20’s. My goal when I started my blog is the hope that my experiences
 can relate to other bloggers out there. It’s was also nice to hear his experience with getting writers 
block time to time which  I can relate too.  Writers block happens to any good writer and it’s okay 
to give your eyes a

break and work on something else for a while.  

Taking on your 20's

Looking back since my Freshman & Sophomore year in College , there's a lot that I wish I could go back to repeat or change. Turning 21 is one of the greatest moments when turning into a young adult. When you turn 21, you learn that house parties weren't as great as you thought when you were younger . Considering myself as a young adult, I would say that I have been exploring Bricktown and  OKC when I want to try a different scenery.  Don't know what to do in Oklahoma on a weekend? Heres some great places that you MUST  try out if your 21 or older!

• Candy's
• Pink Cadillac 
• Backers Street
• Ednas and then head to Speak Easy 
• Dollhouse

Uber is the best taxi cab service to use if you were drinking or don't want to drive yourself somewhere, in my opinion. Its cheep, download the app on your phone !